Anonyme: im really insecure about the fact that i masturbate (i'm a girl). do you masturbate? is it normal?

Yes, I do, and I’m not ashamed to admit it.

Honestly, mastrubation is a completely normal thing, it is a great way to explore your body and learn what you like and what feels good for you. In fact, there have been studies done on seeing what percentage of people mastrubate and whether it does any harm to you, and the results shouldn’t be surprising. It does absolutely no harm to you (unless you do it excessively which was like 3 times a day if I remember correctly, but nothings good for you if you have too much of it), in fact there are a lot of benefits. (Huffington Post link)

Secondly, studies have found that both sexes do mastrubate, with Kinsey finding (link) (yes, back in the 1940s and 50s), that 92% of men mastrubate and 62% of woman do too. (I can’t find the other article which I read a while ago, but that statistic for females was much higher and it was more modern, sometime in the late 90s or 2000s). Anyways, basically a lot of people mastrubate, and a lot of girls mastrubate.

Why should it be ok for guys to mastrubate, but not girls? There is nothing wrong or dirty with doing it, it’s a great way to explore yourself and your sexuality.  This is still such a taboo subject, but hey, just know that plenty of other people do it. In fact, a large part of the people you know have done it before and probably do it on a “regular” basis (I’d define that anywhere from as little as once per month to daily). There is no reason for you to be insecure about it, just go and have fun with yourself!

Also that was probably a much longer answer then you wanted, but yah, I’ve read quite a number of articles about this and I have explored sexology studies before, they are fascinating. So you got a whole rundown of this, haha, I hope I helped inform you and make you more confident, its a completely normal thing to do!


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